I agree with you. I struggle to find something specific she did wrong, and yet faces constant scrutiny and unkindness in the press that has to grate on you over time. Buzzfeed did an article comparing press on her to press on Kate and it is astonishing how they can do the same things but be treated so different. Here’s the link- https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-double-standards-royal?origin=shp
I’m rooting for her to find her way to a happy life with her husband and child, as I would for any new family!